When people enter into a relationship, they should understand that this is not only a pleasant time spent together, but also a permanent job. But all people have the right to make a mistake, and in a relationship such a mistake often becomes treason. You can understand this by 10 signs.
10. Interrupts all communications
It’s not easy to forgive betrayal, it takes a lot of effort, and not all people are able to forgive betrayal by a loved one. But cheating is not always a deliberate step. The other half can reproach and hate themselves for hurting a partner. If a person breaks all ties with a former lover or mistress. Deletes from social networks, erases the phone number and in every possible way avoids meeting with this person. This behavior indicates that the connection was fleeting and the partner does not want this to ever happen again. You should pay attention to this if you decide to forgive the traitor.
9. Sincerely regrets
Sincere regret and remorse indicate that the partner understands the pain inflicted on his soulmate. And perhaps he did this not intentionally. The main thing is that feelings of remorse come from the heart. It often happens that a partner after a betrayal asks for forgiveness, begs to forgive him and does everything possible to gain the trust of his soulmate again. But time passes, and history repeats itself. And repeated more than once. This behavior indicates a complete disrespect for the feelings of the partner. If you see that the traitor does not pretend to return you, but realizes that his act is unforgivable, it is worth taking a closer look at the sincerity of his words and actions. And maybe forgive this mistake.
8. Tries to regain confidence
Another sign that can be regarded as a sign to forgive treason is the desire to gain your trust again by all means. The partner suddenly begins to be more attentive, takes care and affection. He is trying to do everything in his power to earn forgiveness and trust again. This can be lost in the little things. Small surprises, gifts, attention. The partner tries to make all his actions as transparent as possible so as not to cause unnecessary suspicion. Open access to all social networks and the phone - all this suggests that gaining your trust again for the second half is very important. Naturally, time must pass for the wound to heal. And if the partner is ready to give it as much as required, while he does his best to show how important you are to him, it is worth giving your beloved or beloved a second chance.
7. Ready to adapt to you.
After treason, a person is driven by a strong sense of guilt. The partner not only with the help of words will apologize and regain your location. A person who sincerely repents is ready in any situations to adapt to you and your desires. To fulfill any whims and desires, just to be forgiven. Your interests now come first. If your partner used to be an egoist and thought only of himself, then guilt after adultery takes precedence over egoism. Only here such an attitude can continue exactly until the moment you forgive your soulmate.
6. Doesn't bother
After the betrayal of a loved one, primarily betrayal, a person can experience various feelings from despair to anger. At such moments, the natural reaction would be the desire to be alone and for some time not to see the reason for such strong feelings. A constant calls, messages or meetings through which the chosen one or the chosen one tries to apologize only exacerbate the situation. If a person truly admits his guilt, he will leave you alone and will not get bored until you are ready to talk to him. Thus, he recognizes your right to be angry and his mistake.
5. Feels terrible
What should a person feel that has changed and is remorseful? That's right, he feels terrible. Especially if your partner is not a pathological traitor who does not feel any remorse even with constant adultery. After this, a person who truly loves you will feel unworthy of you. A constant feeling of guilt and fear will not leave him for even a second. And if these feelings are genuine, you can try to forgive the betrayal and start a relationship from scratch.
4. Tries to start all over again
How to understand that there is a chance to forgive treason and continue to build relationships? You need to carefully look at your partner. Suddenly, his attitude towards you became like in the first months after meeting. This means that the partner is trying to start all over again and wake up in you the feeling of love that you experienced before. Of course, it will not be easy to forget about the insult, but this is not required of you. But your partner should take care of this if he wants to start all over again. And you should try to give him another chance and your forgiveness.
3. Do you have children who love him
Nothing makes the gap as difficult as having children in common. The gap between parents is always the greatest stress for a child, even if he has long grown. But an even greater shock for children is to find out the reason for the gap between mom and dad. And what if the child you have from your first marriage, and he has already managed to become attached and fall in love with a new partner? After all, to find a person who will love someone else's child as his own is not so simple. Of course, staying together after an insult only for the sake of the child is not the best way out, but if there is at least a chance that you can forget about the betrayal, it might be worth a try.
2. It happened once
Definitely not forgiving systematic betrayal in any case. A man does not love you, but simply uses, while managing to walk on the side. Most often, such partners do not even hide their adventures from the second half. But if the betrayal was only once and deep down you realize that your partner sincerely repents of his deeds. It would be difficult to realize this, but infidelity does not always indicate a lack of love for you. There are many examples where, after one betrayal, people remained together and experienced this difficult period. Or some time after parting on the basis of betrayal converged again. The main thing is not to chop into the shoulders and not to make hasty conclusions. If the betrayal was once, it is worth trying to forgive your partner.
1. Confessed himself
The most difficult thing is to admit to a person who loves you in treason. To take such a step requires courage. After recognition, there is a chance that the other half can lose you forever, but hiding the truth and constantly cheating is sometimes even more difficult. No matter how difficult it is to admit to treason, only a loving person can do this. Well, and much better to learn about betrayal from a partner than from strangers. It’s hard to decide on recognition, but if your soulmate went for it, maybe you should give the relationship another chance?