The relationship between a woman and a man is a constant job, and not just a pleasant pastime. And far from always the reason may be in the woman herself.
10. Did not agree on the characters
One of the reasons why a man can leave a woman is the incompatibility of characters. The reason is quite logical. No matter how many people claim, opposites are not attracted. And it’s much easier to live with a person with whom you have a similar temperament and character. If you have different characters, then quarrels will constantly arise over trifles. Such relationships only destroy people and spoil their lives. Therefore, if a man understands that you do not agree with the characters and decides to part with you, perhaps this is for the best. If serious misunderstandings arise at the initial stages of a relationship, then further it is unlikely to be better.
9. A woman uses a man as an outlet
Of course, you should not always blame the man for the break. Some women are forced to abandon them. No matter how men claim that a husband is a breadwinner, a woman is a mistress, such marriages are rarely happy. In such a relationship, a woman uses a man as an outlet. If she does not have her own interests or her favorite job, she tries to find a man to devote to him all herself. This bothers you very quickly. And the man goes to a self-sufficient girl who puts her interests at the forefront. Being an outlet for someone is hard. And with such a woman it is difficult to build a healthy relationship. With the same success, you can get a pet, and not look for a man.
8. A woman is too frankly showing that she wants to get married
Russian women strongly believe that men are in short supply. And that a woman cannot take place in life if she does not get married. Therefore, when a candidate for husbands appears on the horizon, the woman immediately tries to cover him. And then such women wonder why men abandon them. Marriage is great, but when both partners are ready for it. And if a woman sees in a man only a husband, and not a friend, lover and just a loved one, why be surprised if a man immediately abandons such a woman.
7. The woman became uninteresting
Another reason why a man can leave a woman is if she is not interested in him. If the reason for the gap lies precisely in this, then you do not need to blame yourself. And it’s not worth looking for a reason what’s wrong with you if a guy left you. So it was not your man. Most likely, such a man initially did not plan to build a serious relationship with you. If a man claims to want to part with you because you are not interested in him, do not try to make a difference. Do not try to do everything so that the guy does not leave you. Remember your pride and dignity. There is no shortage of men in the country and it’s not worth holding onto one guy if he wants to leave you.
6. Slutty past life
Another stereotype that exists in society - a woman should have only one man in sex. Many guys are even ready to leave the girl if they find out that she is not her first or if the girl had many sexual partners. If you come across just such a man, parting with him is the best that can happen to you. A girl is not obliged to report and blame herself for having many men. Of course, if a girl leads, frankly, a dissolute lifestyle, this is not entirely good. As is the case with men. An erratic sexual life in both men and women negatively affects health due to the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases.
5. A man is used as a wallet
Many men are sure that all women are mercantile and that they need only money from them. But not all girls are like that. Now everything is exactly the opposite, women are trying to become financially independent. But, nevertheless, there are those who continue to see a purse in a man. And who will like it if they meet him not because of sympathy and love, but because of money. Of course, no man wants to be a wallet full of money in the eyes of a woman.
4. The woman stopped caring for herself
After many years together, some women believe that they do not need to take care of themselves, because they have already found a man for themselves. But it is one thing when a woman ceases to care for herself after the birth of a child due to the fact that she does not have time for this, and the husband does not seek to help with the child. Here he looks like a bastard. To push all the homework to the wife and at the same time complain that she has grown fat and has become not so attractive is a low deed. And another thing, when a woman is simply too lazy to engage in herself. Each girl needs to remember that her beloved needs to take time daily and bring beauty. Not for a man, but for his beloved. Love yourself, and then the man will not seek adventure on the side.
3. The wife began to earn more than her husband
Only a man with low self-esteem can abandon a woman who began to earn more. Again, the stereotype that a woman cannot be more successful than her husband does not disappear. And if your man is not satisfied with the fact that you earn more, then why do you need him. Only a man with low self-esteem will assert himself at the expense of the woman. If a man truly loves you, he will only be happy if you succeed and earn good money. And if a man puts you an ultimatum, he or your financial independence, then drop it yourself.
2. The woman is unrestrained
A woman does not need to adhere to the rule that she should be compliant, not argue with the man and agree with him on everything. It is important to have an opinion and if you do not agree with something, then talk about it. But if you are unrestrained, annoyed by everything and constantly shout at a man, do not be surprised if he abandons you. Would you like it if a man behaved like that with you? Hardly. So the man does not want to listen to constant reproaches without significant reasons. It is difficult to build healthy relationships with such a woman.
1. Woman cheated
Well, the most serious reason why a man can leave is treason. Forgiving treason is very difficult and not everyone is ready for it. Even if the partner admits that the betrayal was a mistake and sincerely repents of it. But if a woman systematically cheats on a man - this is not normal. Cheating only hurts. And if a woman is constantly changing, then she just does not like a man. It is mean and low, to deceive a loving person. It’s better to leave right away than to torment a person. You cannot build healthy relationships on deception. Toxic relationships must be broken immediately. It is foolish to wait for a person to change, and constantly catch him in a lie.